Our guidance is about life, how to look at it as raw material for personal growth and self-realization, not a challenge to survival.

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et’s face it, every human being wants to feel capable, successful and useful. When we have those measures of assurance we can face any obstacle and be able to just be “high on life”. The strength we get from these assurances is not physical. It lies in the essence of who we are. It is driven and energized by how we see ourselves – our self worth or self-image.

This is not something that someone else can give you no matter how caring or generous they may be. It is something that only you can give to yourself. And that is what we propose to show you. We want to show you how to secure it so it is not vulnerable to the stresses that come at you from the changing circumstances of life, other people’s influence, or your won physical health and wellbeing.

We consider this to be your personal journey, not one you must share with others. The guidance you will seek and receive will be offered privately, discreetly, and with real support. The objective is to build clarity within your vision of self, not just to manage an unhealthy behavior. We do, however, recognize that a person with an unhealthy behavior or even an addiction will have needed help from outside if only to get started. We see it as absolutely necessary, however, to still build, restore, and secure your self image even if you have successfully discarded an old habit.

The Lessons of the Understanding Change management techniques, the chats based on this understanding, the readings that use it, and the book that explains it further will simply explore life with you so you will be empowered to navigate your reality with self-driven passion, purpose, and poise, charting your own course, not one we give to you.

There are two levels of access to the full series of discourses.

Full Membership.  A single fee of $150.00 gives you a lifetime access to all posted lessons and updates, essays, and the ability to communicate with us in real time using the personal and fully private message board. You will be able to view and connect as we expand our lessons and as new issues arise in your life – all with no further fees.

Sponsored Membership. This gives you much of the same benefits for a reduced cost of $75.00.  The only link that is inactive is the Private Message Box. This allows you to continue to use your counselor as your resource. Your counselor can still communicate with us if s/he wants to discuss a private matter but the removal of this as a direct association with us allows us to offer full access at a significantly reduced fee.

Building Self-Confidence and Self-Accountability

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